Many couples find that the wedding ceremony itself presents a problem. They have a lot of emotions that they want to express, to make the day very special and meaningful, yet the words do not come to them. They rely on the officiant to come up with just the right words to share how they feel about each other. This is perfectly all right.
Some officiants will have a questionnaire to help determine what your thoughts and feelings about each other are. They may ask, “What does love mean to you?” or “What words describe how you feel about your partner?” There are many questions that will help you to think about what you want said the day of your wedding. Thinking about these things when the pressure is off allows your officiant get to know who the two of you are as a couple and what is important in your lives. They may ask about your hobbies, what “family” means to you. How much time do you think is important to spend with your partner, and when you are together, what makes that time special?
Having some time to think about these things allows you to have a ceremony that will bring back memories of fondness for the rest of your lives.
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