Who Decides?

As a young couple, preparing something as grand as a wedding may take the wind out of your sails. There are so many things to consider, so many businesses to deal with, and a lot of things to keep track of. Perhaps you would like to have the help of someone more experienced in bringing all of these things together. Your officiant can help with these things, but when it comes to making the decisions as to what you want, keep in mind that you are in charge. It's your day! Mom and Dad, the Officiant, the DJ, the Florist, the Boutique Consultant, the Caterer, the Venue Consultant and the rest of the entourage will all have their opinions and can certainly offer the assistance of their expertise in their chosen field, but when it comes to making your day special and memorable for you, you get to make all the decisions. If someone tells you that you have to do it his or her way, it may be time to look for someone else to fill that role. When you choose what you want in your wedding and how things are to be done, the rest of the troops can fall in line and support your image of the perfect wedding.