The day of the
wedding ceremony is fraught with nerves, headaches, and confusion. There are many things that can go wrong, but
the important thing is to avoid a meltdown for the bride and groom. With a little luck and a good officiant, the
wedding can be salvaged and be remembered for years to come as a beautiful
event, near and dear to the heart.
Let’s take a look at
some of the things that might go wrong.
First, the Marriage License can be lost, left behind at the hotel, have
coffee spilled on it, or be accidentally torn.
Plan ahead by giving the license to someone who will take responsibility
for it, such as the maid of honor or best man, a parent, or a wedding planner.
This person will be responsible for making sure it gets packed with items to go
to the location of the ceremony, making sure it is transported to the site, and
perhaps wrapping it in plastic report cover to prevent damage from spills or
tears, and most importantly, delivering the license to the officiant prior to
the ceremony.
Another disastrous
thing that can happen is having the wedding cake ruined. This can happen in transport. The cake may fall, melt, be dropped, not be
what was ordered, etc. The solution to
this is a little more difficult. If
possible, have the bakery deliver the cake to your location. They have to tools to protect the cake from
most of these problems. If the cake
comes in sections, they will be able to set it up to its best. If your baker doesn’t deliver, allow extra
time so that the cake doesn’t get bounced around in transport by having to
hurry through traffic. Upon arrival, use
a kitchen cart to move the cake into the hall.
If there is a melting problem, smoothing the icing with a spatula should
help repair the situation.
Flowers are commonly
delivered by the florist, and they will often help distribute the bouquets and
boutonnieres to the wedding party. The
problem here is if they droop in the heat of summer, or if the tapes holding
things together slide off. This isn’t a
common problem, but it is a possibility.
If necessary, store the flowers in a refrigerator to keep them fresh.
Clothing can become
a headache as well. Perhaps someone’s
tux doesn’t fit. Or, perhaps the
bridesmaids gowns are too tight. Worst of
all, the bridal gown may tear or pop a button.
The latter problem can be helped with a needle and thread, so long as
this is packed into a “go bag” where all of the last minute needs are stored. The fitting of the tuxes and bridesmaids
gowns can be taken care of if everyone is fitted a week or so before the
ceremony. Then, make sure that each
person does, in fact, have the clothing that is meant for them.
Now it is a matter
of making sure all of the people that have been invited are on time. Depending upon the size of the guest list, it
may or may not be important that the guests, and a special guest in particular,
arrive on time. It isn’t practical to
phone everyone and remind them to be on time, but if there is someone you
absolutely want to be there for the ceremony, a well-timed phone call can help
them remember what time they should arrive.
Ten minutes before the ceremony is a good rule of thumb.
Last, it’s raining
on your well-planned ceremony. Not to
worry. Paperwork can be slipped into plastic
report covers so that the ink doesn’t run, someone can be asked to hold
umbrellas over the wedding party if the rain is falling very hard, or, if the
rain is a temporary thing, it’s probably okay to wait a little while. But remember, rain on the wedding day is a
good omen.
If you can avoid
these pitfalls, there is no reason for a meltdown and heartfelt memories shall
abound.
